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Email #1 to my husband (a.k.a. Daddy-to-be)...

Me:  "Honey, thank you so much for doing so much cleaning around the house lately.  I really appreciate it."

Daddy-to-be:  "No problem.  Don't worry, I have to get used to it..."

WHAT A GREAT GUY, RIGHT?!!?!

Because the first three months of pregnancy were spent passing out once my butt hit a couch or a chair, or staying away from cleaning fumes, or gasping for air after 3 steps up to the apartment, Daddy-to-be has really stepped up to the plate.  He has taken on many of the household responsibilities that used to be painless for me to perform.  Although he might not do it "my way", I really appreciate that he's willing to do part of my share, on top of his own.

Email #2

Me:  "Hey, babe.  What do you want for dinner this week?  I'm headed to the market after work."

Daddy-to-be:  "...maybe you can also pick up some sort of meat and some potatoes and I'll make some mashed potatoes."

YES, FOLKS...HE VOLUNTEERS TO COOK NOW TOO!

I guess there is no reason to be fear the adjustment process and adjustment of responsibilities as this new baby comes along.  My husband is turning into a great Daddy-to-be already!

I am so blessed.

Here's a picture of my love with his niece, Addison.  Melts your heart, right?  (Just a preview.)


God Bless,
Kat

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