This weekend, while looking for a two bedroom apartment, the following conversation took place...
Daddy-to-be: "So babe, how's this gonna work?"
Me: "How's what gonna work?"
Daddy-to-be: "Well, if a newborn gets up every 2-3 hours to feed and/or change, are we gonna take turns every other night or every other time the baby gets up every night?"
Me: "I'm guessing every other time the baby gets up."
Daddy-to-be: "Oh...well, should we get an alarm that goes off every two hours?"
Me: "Huh? No."
Daddy-to-be: "Then how will we know when to wake the baby up?"
Me: [Flash forward to a mental picture of Wyatt waking the baby up every 2 hours while it's sleeping.] [LAUGHTER] "You won't need an alarm clock, babe. The baby is your alarm clock. He/she will let you know if it needs to be fed or changed.
Daddy-to-be: "Oh, really? Okay."
Me: "Babe...I'm glad we had this conversation now, rather than after the baby is born. If the baby wants to sleep for more than than 2-3 hour intervals at night, please let it. No need to wake a sleeping baby if it's not necessary."
I love my husband and how curious he gets. I'm sure this will just be the first of many baby conversations we'll have. I love it!
God Bless,
Kat
Daddy-to-be: "So babe, how's this gonna work?"
Me: "How's what gonna work?"
Daddy-to-be: "Well, if a newborn gets up every 2-3 hours to feed and/or change, are we gonna take turns every other night or every other time the baby gets up every night?"
Me: "I'm guessing every other time the baby gets up."
Daddy-to-be: "Oh...well, should we get an alarm that goes off every two hours?"
Me: "Huh? No."
Daddy-to-be: "Then how will we know when to wake the baby up?"
Me: [Flash forward to a mental picture of Wyatt waking the baby up every 2 hours while it's sleeping.] [LAUGHTER] "You won't need an alarm clock, babe. The baby is your alarm clock. He/she will let you know if it needs to be fed or changed.
Daddy-to-be: "Oh, really? Okay."
Me: "Babe...I'm glad we had this conversation now, rather than after the baby is born. If the baby wants to sleep for more than than 2-3 hour intervals at night, please let it. No need to wake a sleeping baby if it's not necessary."
I love my husband and how curious he gets. I'm sure this will just be the first of many baby conversations we'll have. I love it!
God Bless,
Kat
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